Category Archives: Personal Stories

Judy Kennedy Changes Course

June, 2017.  The following is from a newspaper article about Judy and Dan Kennedy closing the doors of Whitehorse Gear, their business of many years.  For Judy it is a “bitter-sweet” change which gives them the opportunity to renew their lives.  Bon Voyage, Dan and Judy!  May you have many more great adventures.

Judy Kennedy, Whitehorse Press, Customer ID 106748 (judy@whitehorsepress.com)

It’s Been a Great Ride!

Since Judy and I founded Whitehorse in 1989, we have had the privilege of serving hundreds of thousands of motorcyclists, helping them find the best information and equipment to make their riding more comfortable and fun. We’ve had a wonderful experience, filled with friendship and adventure stretching from those early days before cell phones and the Internet. And while the essentials of two-wheeled travel have really changed very little over the years, enthusiasm for things like dual-sport riding, metric cruisers, and even heated gear has woven its way into the motorcycling mainstream — and we’ve greatly enjoyed being a part of it all.

It is with mixed feelings then that we have reached a decision to close our Warehouse Store in Conway later this spring and retire from day-to-day business to spend more time enjoying the sort of life that drew us all together in the first place.

So what does this mean for you? For the next couple of months we’ll be offering some outstanding values on our remaining inventory, just in time for you to get well geared up for the riding season ahead. As always, we intend to give you the same great customer service of which we have long been proud. And while the best deals will be found early among our discontinued merchandise, we are willing to special order any items we can for you. Unredeemed gift certificates will, of course, be honored in whatever manner best suits your needs. Give us a call.

Keep an eye out for upcoming marketing emails giving you first crack at the savings. If you happen to be in the area, stop by and give us a chance to help you find what you’re looking for, and let us thank you personally for the many years we’ve shared the road.

Dan and Judy Kennedy, Owners
Whitehorse Gear 
107 East Conway Road 
Center Conway, NH 03813 

800-531-1133

 

2017 – from Dottie in June

Summer in Florida is hot and rainy and boring so once again I am heading north, looking forward to all July and maybe first 2 weeks of August in Rockport MA. I can walk downtown and to the ocean from my little studio apartment.  There’s really only room for me but 7 South Street B&B is my next door neighbor.  One of Rockport’s many charms is the Shalin Liu Performing Arts Center; check it out on line.  Who wants to come visit?  Great lobster of course. Train from Boston.  I have my car.  Only booked dates are 17-22 when my kids are coming to find out why I keep talking about Rockport.
 
Also, I love being able to visit Boston by train and maybe join up with some of you??  Unfortunately, I can’t stay long enough for the NE mini reunion but who knows what we might cook up in Boston?  Or Rockport?
 
This is my first attempt at the website; encourage me by responding.  My email is doromom@gmail.com and my phone 813-985-2342.  I am leaving by auto train June 28.
 
Love to all,  Dottie

Dottie’s Valentine Letter

TO MY VALENTINES

Geoff and Dave enjoy the barbecue

Sons Geoff and Dave enjoy the barbecue

You know who you are, all the lovely loved ones in my life, and today is my day to celebrate you before the New Year gets any older! Sending cards at the traditional time continues to be an elusive, though admirable, goal; doesn’t stop me from doing what I can when I can. So I hope there is much joy in your lives, as a balance to the personal and world wide challenges we all face. It would be easy to 

Geoff and Susan prepare Christmas dinner for the granddogs

Geoff and daughter Susan prepare Christmas dinner for the granddogs

give up on the crazy old world we live in, but I am heartened by a hymn I know: “Ours is no caravan of despair, come, yet again, come.”

It is almost four years since E.D. died, and thoughts of you still sustain me. As do visits.   The Wilsons in MI, the Martins in NY, Ann and Neil in MA and Susan, Dave’s family and Elizabeth in NC all welcomed me for the hot months I avoid here in Tampa. And in the winter I look forward to reciprocating.

 

Click on thumbnails below to enlarge, then click the “close button (x)” to see the caption.

 

Babbie’s Life 2016

Dear Friends,

Babbie, Ludlow and Golden Gate Bridge

Babbie, Ludlow and Bay Bridge

We have “left our hearts in San Francisco”, we are still HERE!!  Starting our 3rd year at the “Old Age Home” in Pleasanton, called Stoneridge Creek Retirement Community.  Of course we miss Chestnut Hill but this has been a very good move for us—to great weather, no snow nor ice, to a lot of new friends and very near Elizabeth(1/2 hr.) and Clarke(1 hr.)  We miss seeing Laura and family in Richmond as often as we used to, but it is wonderful to see Elizabeth and Clarke and their families a lot!!

Babbie's children: Laura, Clarke and elizabeth

Babbie’s children: Laura, Clarke and Elizabeth

Laura's kids Jack and Emmy

Laura’s kids Jack and Emmy

The OAH is a busy place especially for Ludlow who loves committees—he is a big honcho with Plant Operations and I really think they should either pay him or let us live here for free!   He can’t get banking out of his blood so he is a stalwart on the finance committee and takes all the fitness classes to replace his love for rowing.  Tennis continues but no paddle tennis here. He also plays golf 2 or 3 times a week with a group called the Nomads who need not belong to any one golf club, they just travel around from one beautiful course to another, a good way to do it in CA.

Babbie2016-4

Clarke and Katy’s children Lucy, Phoebe, and Maggie

I am playing tennis on hardcourts(not my favorite), and there is a good group of us who show up 3 times a week, ages 76-92—imagine that.  We can still do it.  All year long.

I am in a book group, was in a small a cappella group which collapsed, am in a bigger chorus and go to lectures and other intellectual events!  There are several small venues near us for plays,concerts, opera and entertainment which means we don’t always have to go into SF.

Elizabeth,

Elizabeth and Paco with children Eliza and Lily

We just got thru with the Super Bowl and all of that hoopla which I am sure you heard about—all fun except for the actual game, boring!  We have never been basketball fans until we moved out here to cheer on the Warriors!  Clarke works for an investment company doing commercial real-estate development and his big success as the project manager has been  leading the approval process for the new basketball arena to be built in SF, for the Golden State Warriors currently in Oakland.  Now our new best friend is Steph Curry and if you haven’t seen him play , you are really missing something.  So we watch a lot of basketball, golf, tennis and the news which in CA is always riveting.  We can’t wait til we know who the presidential candidates will be –so we can skip most of the nonsense going on now.

Babbie2016-6

Laura, Mike and Jack celebrate Emmy’s high school graduation

It has been great fun to spend more time with grandchildren now that we live near them.  They come here for lunch and swimming and bocce and we go see them playing their games—soccer or softball or lacrosse or singing in a concert.  Much more fun than just visiting for a weekend or at Christmas time.  It’s 76 degrees here on V. Day—can you top that? Nice to be missing the cold east coast!

We try to stay in touch but sometimes are a little late with the Christmas and Happy New Year wishes.  We love hearing from you!  Now you are up-to-date on us, please come see us.  We love having visitors.  Any time of year is a good time to come to California!

Lots of love on Valentine’s Day and all year long, xoxoxoxoxoxoxo Babbie

 

 

Dee DeFerranti Abrahamse Holiday Letter

Dear Friends,                                                                                     December 2015

Greetings from Dee and Allan for 2015. We’ve had a good year, especially since a lot of it involved time enjoying our grandchildren Genevieve and Aakash. We are grateful that we’re both still healthy and only a bit more forgetful than we were a year or two ago. Genevieve is now nine, and has become an accomplished young lady – a whiz on the computer, and a great cook. She found two recipes and made them for Thanksgiving with her father Paul and me assisting. She is in fourth grade in Michigan now.

Aakash, two and a half is a cheerful non-stop talker who loves trucks, curious George and animals. His parents Ben and Trina just bought a house and moved to the Boston suburbs. We spent time with them all in Boston, San Francisco, Long Beach and Vermont this year, and had lots of Skype calls. We’re happy that the converted Vermont barn we inherited from Dee’s parents now has a third generation of children enjoying it and our family times there together, now including Allan’s brother Dale and his family and Ben’s wife Trina’s parents.

Dee began the year with a sibling trip to South Africa with her sister Katie, brother Dave and sister-in- law Margot. We were fascinated with what we got to see about the history and diversity South Africa today, and, like everyone else we know, loved the countryside and wildlife. One special mission was learning more about our paternal grandmother, who grew up and met our grandfather there in the late 19th century before immigrating to Australia. We were able to find quite a bit, visited a school she attended and even met a distant cousin. In November we had a fall trip to Washington DC and New York, where we visited family, reconnected with old friends, and managed to see Hamilton in New York – up to the hype, and The Gin Game starring James Earle Jones and Cicely Tyson, a stunning performance by two legendary actors older than we are. We also loved the new Whitney Museum, and heard a concert by Dee’s former choir, Long Beach Camerata Singers. Dee did some lobbying with the Friends Committee on National Legislation in Washington.

Dee continues with the Public Library Foundation and Human Trafficking Task Force and sings with a group for hospice patients. We are both active in our Quaker meeting.

(Ed Note:  Dee’s book suggestions can be found in “What We Do”/Great Reads)

Like the rest of you, we can only wish for some sanity and compassion in our country in 2016 .

Dee Deferranti Arahamse and husband AllanDeePhoto2015

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Carol Benson’s Great-granchildren

Hi All,
Seems the chat list has been silent for several weeks so I thought this would be a nice way to test our list.
Pictured are my eight great-grandchildren when we gathered for Thanksgiving at the Wolcott VT home of Linda/MeMe and Tom/Grandpa Martin, the grandparents of this lively group.  Next to me-Gigi- is Dylan Haskins, then Sophia Giard whose violin lessons I’m enjoying facilitating, Malia Haskins who will start piano in January, twin Judah Giard, expert climb-anything-anywhere, his older brother Leon, on the floor impish Isabella Giard,  youngest Giard Calvin and other twin Asher.  I helped Asher get his feast from his plate to his mouth where most of it stayed.  I am so lucky to have the families of Sara Haskins MHC ’99 and her sister Eliza Giard living nearby.
Holiday greetings from Vermont to your homes and families.
Carol Sweeney Benson

In Response to Myra Small

After including a post from Myra Small who lives in Israel, I felt compelled to include this article brought to our attention by JoAnn Mayer Orlinsky.  Although this is not particularly a “Personal Story”, Myra’s post follows this one.  There is an ongoing discussion on this topic in the email group.           Editor, 8/12/14.

The Moral Chasm Between Israel and Hamas,                                                                 Wall Street Journal – July 25th, 2014 – Page A13

By James T. Conway,   July 24, 2014 7:05 p.m. ET

Americans are understandably concerned when they hear that the majority of Palestinian casualties in the fighting between Israel and Hamas have been civilians and when they see images of houses in Gaza reduced to rubble and women wailing. Given the lack of corresponding Israeli civilian casualties to date, this creates the impression of an unequal—and hence immoral—fight between Israel and Hamas.

Although American empathy for noncombatants is a critical component of who we are as a people, it should not blind us to reality: Israel’s military exists to protect its civilian population and seeks to avoid harming noncombatants, while its adversary cynically uses Palestinian civilians as human shields while deliberately targeting Israeli civilians.

I recently had the opportunity to see for myself the moral chasm between how the Israeli Defense Forces and Hamas treat civilians during military operations. In May I joined a dozen other retired U.S. generals and admirals on a trip to Israel with the Jewish Institute for National Security Affairs.

Just outside Hamas-ruled Gaza, we toured a tunnel discovered less than one kilometer from an Israeli kindergarten. Unlike tunnels that I had seen during the Iraq war that were designed for smuggling, this Hamas tunnel was designed for launching murder and kidnapping raids. The 3-mile-long tunnel was reinforced with concrete, lined with telephone wires, and included cabins unnecessary for infiltration operations but useful for holding hostages.

Israel, fearing just such tunnel-building, has long tried to limit imports of concrete to Gaza for anything but humanitarian projects, yet somehow thousands of tons of the material have been diverted for terror use rather than building hospitals or housing for Palestinians. Since the beginning of ground operations into Gaza, the IDF has uncovered approximately 30 similar tunnels leading into Israel, in addition to the more than two dozen discovered prior to Operation Protective Edge. Hamas operatives have been intercepted emerging from such tunnels in Israel carrying tranquilizers and handcuffs, apparently hoping to replicate the successful 2006 kidnapping of IDF soldier Gilad Shalit, for whom Israel exchanged 1,000 Palestinian prisoners in 2011.

Beyond targeting Israeli civilians with kidnappings and with the indiscriminate firing of rockets, Hamas shows a callous disregard for the lives of the Palestinians it ostensibly represents. Earlier this month Hamas spokesman Sami Abu Zuhri appeared on Al-Aqsa TV and encouraged Gaza residents to act as human shields. They appear to have heeded the call: Israeli Defense Forces combat video has shown Palestinians rushing to rooftops after receiving warnings from Israel—via phone calls, text messages, and unarmed “knock-knock” small projectiles striking a targeted building—that a missile attack is imminent.

Nor is Hamas the only potential adversary of Israel that believes its civilians’ propaganda value is worth more than their lives. From an IDF outpost overlooking the border, I saw housing tracts in Lebanon built with Iranian money after Israel’s 2006 war with Hezbollah. The IDF has determined that the housing masks the launch sites for some of the more than 100,000 rockets that Hezbollah holds in reserve for attacking Israel and its citizens. As we have seen in images from Gaza, the occupants of these dwellings either will serve as human shields to deter Israeli pre-emptive strikes, or in the event of another war they will be valuable “collateral damage”—dying in the service of Hezbollah’s propaganda mill.

This cynical inducement of civilian suffering for propaganda is in marked contrast to the IDF’s treatment of noncombatants. While Hamas is encouraging the sacrifice of its civilian population—and its cowardly leadership is ensconced in underground bomb shelters—the IDF reports that in the conflict’s first week it provided more than 4,400 tons of food to Palestinians in Gaza, about 900 tons of natural gas and about 3.2 million liters of diesel fuel. All this despite 1,700 Hamas rockets fired at Israel.

Meanwhile, the Rutenberg power plant outside Ashdod in Israel supplies Gaza with electricity, though the Palestinian Authority’s payments are badly in arrears. This supply only stopped when a Hamas rocket destroyed the power lines to Gaza on July 13, plunging 70,000 Palestinian households into darkness. Despite the rocket fire, Israel repaired the transmission lines, restoring electricity to Gaza.

I do not relate these experiences to argue for an Israeli moral perfection that does not exist, or to suggest that the IDF should be immune from criticism even if it commits genuine abuses. The tragic reality is that no matter how much the IDF tries to avoid collateral damage, its operations will kill some number of civilians. That won’t be close to the carnage of noncombatants in the Syrian civil war, but it won’t matter. As one Israeli commander told me, “The world judges Israel differently,” regardless of its efforts to minimize civilian casualties.

I suspect that he may be right. If so, it is essential for the IDF to be as vigilant in shaping the information environment as it is in intercepting rockets from Gaza.

Gen. Conway, who retired in 2010, was the 34th commandant of the U.S. Marine Corps.

 

 

Myra Small on Israel

 This request for news comes at an unusual time. A month ago we
woke to the startling news that the hundred year border was dissolving
and brutal fighters of the Islamic state in Iraq and Syria had taken
large swaths of Iraq. I was preparing to sing Mozart’s Requiem.
   Ten days ago I sang in La Traviata with an excellent South African
tenor whose native tongue is Zulu. This was in the town of Ashdod
which has since been pummeled day and night by rockets from Gaza.
   And last week we managed two spirited performances of Carmina
Burana (in 11th-12th century Latin) in Tel Aviv- without having to
stop because of rockets.
   Surrealistic? I wait to see what comes next
Myra Small            Rehovot, Israel, July 12, 2014

Editor’s note, 8/10/14 — there is an ongoing discussion on this topic in the email group.  If you are interested in reading more, check out “Welcome:  Email Chat Group”, and you, too, can join in on this and other timely discussions.

 

Valley Women: Judy Kennedy

Here’s a copy of the first issue of Valley Women, a  new magazine, which features our own Judy Kennedy.  Congratulations, Judy.   What a woman!   Just click on it to enjoy!

Kennedy Magazine