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2023 NH Mini-Reunion

August 23

Once again, northern New England ’61ers and guests got together for our annual mini-reunion lunch in North Conway village, a tradition that has been happening for at least 15 years!  Judy asked everyone to share a highlight from their spring or summer, and Barb took the following notes:

Marian Strong Moore is enjoying her summer in Waterford ME at the family’s camp on Keoka Lake in Western Maine. The family is planning  a 100th anniversary celebration in 2025!  She learned that loons “raft” and has enjoyed listening to them.

Bobbi Childs Sampson moved us to tears with the story of her recovery from a major stroke last December.  Her husband’s quick response, the availability of excellent medical care, and her hard work all made for a happy ending.  She wasn’t sure she’d be able to waterski this summer but Yes! She did it!

Dee deFerranti Abrahamse and her husband Allan arrived at their summer place in Vermont’s Northeast Kingdom last week.  They have been coming since 1967 but this will be the first time they will stay through to mid-October. We hope the foliage is glorious.  Dee said her highlight was being able to be here with us!

Sallie Crittendon moved into an older house in Norway, ME.  A new screen porch has been a welcome addition. She is happy to be in town. Her daughter Lisa ’83 joined us again this year. She spends some time in their lake house on Lake Pennessewasee, near Sallie’s house.  It was fun to hear that Lisa went to her 40th MHC Reunion this year and stayed in the new dorm, Creighton Hall.  Lisa also had both Covid and Lyme disease this summer but was glad to find so much support from her good friends which sped her recovery.

Elsa Anderson van Bergen and her husband Richard fought summer traffic to come up to the Mini Reunion from Kennebunk ME on the coast.  She found joy in  watching finch families nest in the wreath on her front door, from eggs to fledglings.  Two broods launched from there. Her St Louis son and family spent time nearby so she could see her grandchildren, ages 8 and 10.

Carol Sweeney Benson also had birds outside her window, singing the sun up.  Her 84th birthday was June 18 and she decided to throw herself a party. She rented a hall, hired a caterer; forty or so people came ages 3 to 84; and it was a huge success. We were all immediately inspired to throw parties for ourselves on our own 85thas a result! 

Barbara Freeman Douglass likes her retirement community in Brunswick, ME, home of Bowdoin College,  but was glad to come back with family to her wonderful farmhouse in Conway NH for the summer and be able to reconnect with old friends there.  In May she went to England to see where some ancestors came from, and then on to a bike and barge trip in The Netherlands.

Judy Marshall Kennedy is all about music now, and describes herself as obsessed and grateful.  Still taking piano lessons, she was thrilled to be able to see both Herbie Hancock and Diana Krall live at the Montreal Jazz Festival in early July. After many years on the Board of Mountain Top Music Center, including the most recent as chair, she is stepping down at yearend, but will remain connected with a special project or two for the foreseeable future.

Meeting in Philadelphia

Sally Shultz Wood’s Memorial service in June, 2023, brought several of our class together for remembrances. It was lovely to see so many of us in person. Left to right are: Bette Keck Peterson, Nony Moore Barr, Alice McGovern Doering, Liz Hottel Barrett, and Liz Brunner Meryman. (Carolyn Williams Clendenning was there also, but we didn’t see her until after the photograph.)

Mary Lyon Birthday 2023

Feb 27, 2023
Hi everyone, and Happy Mary Lyon’s Birthday –

Last night’s Zoom was great fun with 24 classmates participating. Barb/Liz/I put together the following Summary of Everyone’s Favorite Memories from Long Ago at MHC. Enjoy – and if you weren’t able to join us last night but would like to add a Memory of your own, please post one on the MHC61 Chat and we’ll add it to the list, which ultimately will reside on the class website.

Judy K
Judith Marshall Kennedy

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February 27, 2023: Mary Lyon’s Birthday celebration.

24 of us met by Zoom to celebrate Mary Lyon’s Birthday (February 28th) and to share “best memories” about our time at Holyoke.

Betsy Karch Wilson (who was visiting with Dottie Smith Mann in Florida): Remembered arriving freshman year at Pearsons with her parents and older brother who was attending Princeton. Judy Marshall Kennedy took one look at him, and asked him if HE was her new roommate! Another memory: she loved having the window wide open in her room in North Rocky senior year no matter the weather outside. One night Judy slept soundly, but in the morning awoke completely covered with snow.

Liz Hottel Barrett: She remembers fondly playing piano with Casey Stengel in the dorms, especially in Mead freshman year. Also smoking and playing bridge, and thanking Ruth Cooney Young who inspired her to lose her Boston accent.

Nancy “Ding”wall Platt: Has wonderful memories of singing with the V-8’s – every aspect of it: the rehearsals and trips that we took together. Liz, Kim, Dottie, and Rocki, all V-8’s, agreed heartily.

Kim Kimball Holmquist: She and Alice wrote out (on a long roll of wallpaper lining), “Procrastination is the Thief of Time” and posted it in their room. Also, on one occasion freshman year, Kim’s zipper wouldn’t close because her only gown no longer fit, due to freshman year expansion, which many of us had. Casey rigged up lacing to cross the gap that allowed her to wear the gown, but when she stepped forward to sing a solo, the choir behind her giggled!

Dottie Smith Mann: She doesn’t remember a lot of special things, but her most warm and genuine memory comes from senior year when Sally Gipson and she had a front bedroom in Pearsons and she loved the feeling of being in that room at night all warm and cozy with the snow blowing outside around the streetlights.

Ann Merchant Boesgaard: She has a lasting memory of a concert in Chapin by an ensemble group playing Schubert’s Octette, which remains a favorite of hers to this day. She also remembers seeing Sputnik from the Buckland roof which in part inspired her to major in Astronomy resulting in her award winning research and teaching career as the Chair of the Univ of Hawaii’s Dept of Astronomy.

Rocki Hill Hughes: Rocki remembered rehearsing with the V-8’s in the CI and how studying there was her refuge–especially sharing ice cream sundaes to help alleviate lovelorn depression.

Mary Ginn Weinland: had three windows in her dorm and was prancing around in her room stark naked. When she heard clapping and looked out and down, some guys were picking up their dates. She realized that she might as well have been in a store window.

Barb Freeman Douglass: Having recently moved for the winter season to a retirement community in Brunswick, ME, the home of Bowdoin College, she attended a concert there. Upon departing, the Bowdoin bells started to ring, which brought back strong memories of Mary Lyon’s bells and the beauty of the Holyoke campus.

Judy Marshall Kennedy: Smoking and the various campus places to do it was a big memory as it dictated where she could study and smoke at the same time! Endless smoking and bridge in the dorm “smokers” before and after every meal soon dominated freshman year. But, by senior year, she was studying harder and using the carrels and the “basement smoker” in the library to work. She remembers sitting on the floor of the spartan (just 2 wood chairs) library smoker leaning up against its stone foundation walls with cigarette in one hand and writing papers and doing book research on “Pilgrim’s Progress” with the other.

Elsa Anderson van Bergen: Transferred sophomore year and missed freshman bonding, but was immediately welcomed by a wonderful group of 1961 classmates which made her ever grateful she made the move. “In Wilder, Sue Higgins had a room next to the dining room, and five of us met there together at meal times. Those five became good lifelong friends.” The concerts at Chapin were also “wonderful” – grateful for so much culture infused into her life.

Marian Strong Moore: Remembers fondly the concert series with George Szell, Cleveland Symphony Orchestra, and that he said he wouldn’t return to campus if they didn’t replace the squeaky seats — they did! She also remembers her hair freezing on the way back to N Mandell after water ballet practice. She thinks it is wonderful that we can all still have such fun together.

Sue Wheatley Carr: Fond memories of adventures with Casey Stengel. “Sophomore year in North Mandelle, a bunch of us decided to climb the water tower behind the Mandelles. Afterwards we ran over and decided to “swing on the birches” which Bunny Richards taught us to do by hanging on overhand and throwing our legs out to the sky as the tree or branch bent over and touched the ground – supposedly at least! When it was Casey’s turn, her large tree stopped 15 feet from the ground – she was frightened, but all the rest of us could do was laugh at her hanging up there helpless.” (No word on how they got her down.)

Susannah Harris Wilson: was full of stories about her MHC connections during and since college, starting with her junior year at St Andrews in Scotland, when visiting friends from Lit Crit (Mary Lou, Ellen, Carol Pallo) visited, and they all decided to hitchhike down to London, meeting many a friendly trucker on the way. Later teaching in Lehore, Pakistan, she reunited with Primila whom some of us knew in college; they still see each other often in Oxford where Susannah now lives. She also told a fun story about being able to get her stolen passport replaced because of a MHC connection. (Mentioning she had recently submitted an article to the Quarterly after our recent reunion about her many amazing international connections with MHC, she never received a response about it from the Editor, nor was it published. We urged her to re-submit it, reminding her that that was a somewhat disorganized time for the Alum Assoc, so hopefully we can all read it in a future edition of the Quarterly.)

Sandy Svihovic Hewitt: Liz Walcott’s roommate for four years. When they were in Buckland, they didn’t always want to go out the front door, so they discovered a way to sneak in-and-out unnoticed through a back window in Abbey. No one ever caught them.

Babbie Baldwin Miller: loved V-8’s, her favorite thing in college. We were lucky because there were so many ’61-ers in it Senior year, she remembers looking down on couples kissing good night on the porch at the end of the night from upstairs in Mead. She also loved the dorm song contest, especially “It’s always Spring around the Sewer”.

JoAnn Mayer Orlinsky: She was on the waitlist for MHC, and spent the whole first semester convinced that she was going to flunk out! She was greatly relieved when she passed her freshman year. MHC opened her eyes to so many meaningful things. Milk and graham crackers for instance! Getting to know Liz Topham, a very funny person. Also, going out to the quad to see Sputnik.

Frannie Blair: Good thoughts about all the classics professors she had and how they took an interest in her. For one class, she and others studied at a professor’s house, who served them tea while they talked. On one of those occasions, they found the professor’s drunk husband out cold on the floor when they arrived, but the professor just instructed them to “just step over him” and get on with their studies. “He’s fine and will get over it,” the professors said, so they did, and he did.

Barbara Hartt Hise: Favorite and not so favorite professors, she remembers one French professor who scared the heck out of her! Also, remembers running around in shorts and knee highs during the winter. Loved Father’s Weekend and going to NYC for the Glee Club concert. Bobbi Koop was her roommate – they were sun worshippers and sunned on the dorm roof. In Pearsons, they sunned on the lawn. Their motto: “It’s better to be red than white.”

Nony Moore Barr: Junior year she studied at the University of Edinburgh, and loved it. Sherry Welles Urner was her roommate – wonderful times. Freshman year at Buckland was wonderful, too, and she remembers sitting in the stairwell of Buckland with others until late in the evening, and having some marvelous open conversations about everything.

Ellen Fetter Gille: Joined us for just a minute from Merida, Mexico, where she is vacationing. She had to leave our Zoom quickly, but it was great fun to see and hear her.

Nancy Birge: Remembers spending hours in the library carrels. Used to go in the math section deliberately so she wouldn’t be distracted by the reference books! Exchange professor from Bennett College was her first African-American teacher. Loved the big copper beech by the side of the Art Building, and gracious living. She also remembers a particularly gracious upperclassman who had a wonderful influence on her.

Gail Morris Dillon: Said it was nice to see everybody. As school she had many good friends, and she especially loved the labs, dissecting things. They dissected cats from the infamous Cat House near lower lake, with hearts still beating! Liz added that she and Bunny once cooked frogs’ legs from the lab frogs.

Carol Pallo Morton: Was present for a few minutes at the beginning of the Zoom, but disappeared at some point, never to return. May have been a bad internet connection, as she now lives in Scotland.

2022 NH Mini-Reunion

August, 2022.  Barb Freeman Douglass sent this newsletter to the class chat group so that we would be able to share in the enjoyment all those New Englanders had being together at their mini-reunion in August.   Judy Kennedy, once again, planned something wonderful for those northerners.  Lucky them — read on!

MHC Mini

Williamstown 2021

October, 2021.  Five of the South Rocky HP Group met over the weekend in Williamstown, MA, at the home of Susan Rhodes Brown — their first get-together since the pandemic began in March 2020.  These South Rocky classmates have been meeting every year or so for the past 30 years.  Their first get together was in 1989 in Philadelphia to wish Bon Voyage to Liz Hottel on her way to Scotland to marry Bryan Barrett.  Now the Browns’ house has become their favorite place — with entertainment provided by Williams College, The Clarke Art Institute, and MassMOCA.  It’s always fun and always so good to be together again.

Left to right:  Susan Rhodes Brown, Susan Griffen Meeker, Barbie Sutton, Katherine Kaufman Snelson and Liz Hottel Barrett.  Missing the event this year were Babbie Baldwin Miller, Jenifer Grant Marx, and Jane Shaw Dietrich.  Below is a view from the porch which shows one of the beautiful “Chinese Ball” sculptures by Kenneth Snelson.

2021 New Hampshire Mini-Reunion

From Barb (Freeman Douglass), 8/24/21

Judy Marshall Kennedy hosted seven classmates plus one ’83 and one brave husband for our mini reunion on August 19.  The pouring rain meant a move from our usual outdoor coffee shop, and we thoroughly enjoyed sitting around her dining room table. Dottie Smith Mann, Dee deFerranti Abrahamse with her husband, Barbara Freeman Douglass, Marian Strong Moore, Bobbi Childs Sampson, Liz Hottel  Barrett, Sallie Crittendon with her daughter Lisa Class of ’83, and Judy all joined in updates, laughs, and good conversation. We were delighted when Liz and Dottie led us in the singing of the special grace from our MHC days.  There were memories of Professor Durfee in math class and of baby music; discussion of obnoxious fund raising tactics; refreshing insights from Dee and Lisa.  Dee commented that California has greatly changed for the better since they first lived there, and more diverse demographics have brought this about.  Lisa’s perspective from today’s workplace was that young people are demanding more benefits such as paternity leave and time off instead of putting up with a culture that expects 80 hour weeks. It was fun to talk about accents and whether”collar” and “caller”  sound alike. It was also fascinating to learn about past years of Judy and Dan’s  publishing businesses and move from Boston to North Conway NH..

This tradition of meeting the third Thursday in August has been going on for 11 years.  We missed Carol Sweeny Benson, Diana Diggin and Elsa Anderson van Bergen, who have been frequent members of the group. All classmates are welcome, so think about being in the beautiful White Mountains of NH next August!

Left to right:  Bobbi, Dee, Dottie, Barb, Liz, Marian, Judy, Sallie

2019 New Hampshire

September 23, 2019
On August 22, Judy Kennedy, Carol Benson, Dee Abrahamse,Bobbi Sampson, Diana Diggin, Marian Moore, Barbara Douglass and her daughter Julia ’87 met at a coffee shop in North Conway. 
     Marian requested a fact check on the origin of “uncommon women”.  The Quarterly gave credit to Wendy Wasserstein but we have strong and fond memories of Pres. Gettel coining that phrase at our convocation in 1957, as well as his greeting to us,  “Fellow Freshmen”. Judy was going to follow up.
     Dee also had press coverage for her work in supporting their library.  Kim Kimball Holmquist sent a copy of the article in the Santa Barbara Times which is posted on the ’61 website. Dee located over 134 book groups in Long Beach who have since donated more than $14,000 to the Billy Jean King Library.
     Diana told of a bibliophile who left his annotated collection of books for friends and relatives and how meaningful this memento was.
Marian is very happy in her retirement community and still sings in her choir.
     Carol has retired from Quarryworks, her local theatre, much to the disappointment of the directors.  This prompted a discussion of knowing when to say no, to stop.  We seem to have a fear of staying on too long in a position.
     Bobbie is discouraged with conditions in Port au Prince, Haiti but pleased with the progress the students have made at the school she’s been involved in for many years, scoring well on state examinations. She visited in April and  was gratified that the young people’s sights are on something greater than survival. It was fascinating to learn of her involvement in education in Haiti and the founding of the school on Lagonave Isand. She revisited our theme of  knowing when to stop and has decided it is time to say 60 years is enough and have younger ones continue.
     And then current  political events and the NH primary were discussed.  It was refreshing to hear different views on candidates.
For our 60th reunion, everyone agreed to solicit all ideas, to brainstorm a wide net.  What will entice our classmates to come?  Everyone offered her help to Reunion Chairs Barbara Douglass and Sallie Crittendon to make the reunion a success–wonderful spirit!
We look forward to Diana sharing a Billy Collins poem on forgetfulness
 
ADDENDUM, some of the notes from the website:

Thanks for an entertaining description of your mini-reunion.  It’s fun to hear how we celebrate in different parts of the country.
I also remember that it was President Gettell from whom we first heard ‘uncommon women’.  Google came up with Gettell’s inaugural address on November 9, 1957, titled “A Plea for the Uncommon Woman”.  Haven’t figured out how to see a copy of it but I think we were definitely the first class called uncommon women.  And so we are.
Susan Pogue Krock

I clearly remember Pres. Getter dubbing us “uncommon women.” Wendy Wasserstein used the term for her play but it did not originate with her. 
A year ago a high school friend and her husband, who went to Wesleyan, were visiting us. He saw “uncommon women” on my MHC mug and thought it was insulting. I assured him it was not and that we are proud of it. He didn’t get it at all. 
Barbara Hartt Hise

 I agree.  It was Gettell calling us Uncommon Women.  I can’t fathom why your friend’s husband thought it was insulting!  Did he explain?
Your mini reunion sounded like such fun!  I was intrigued by your discussion about when to decide to stop.  I was having the same argument with myself about singing another Music Club concert (I still sing pretty well for an almost eighty year old but  not like I used to!). I commented to daughter Kirsten that if she would play with me, I’d do it—she hasn’t played her flute in years!  She said No, so I was about to turn down the invitation, when she called and said she’d changed her mind and would start practicing so I am excited to report that we will be performing together for the first time in many years on March 21.  I guess I am postponing my farewell a bit longer!
Cheers, Kim

Your reunion sounded like such fun…wish I lived close enough to come!  Sometime…maybe… I’ll just have to travel there and stay with Judy!  In my recollection,  it was President Gettell who coined the “Uncommon Women”, and we were the first class that he called that!     I, too, am in the process of working to chose to stop some things and take up others…but always keeping in mind that I sure do enjoy my nap time in the early afternoon!     I love Dottie’ s “weighing the value and the cost”!    We just moved to a condo two years ago, so it behooves me to do things closer to home.    I feel very strongly that this next year’s election is super important to our country, so have become active in the League of Women Voters again…tomorrow, am working on registering our young people to vote at a small college close to our new home.   Am also going to be canvassing.   Have just become a Steven Minister at our new church, so am looking forward to hopefully helping some people in need, by pretty much just being there and listening.   I’m also part of a fantastic choir there!     Obviously, as Dottie said also, moving does help!    Best of “choosing time” to everyone!   Betsy

South Rocky in Williamstown 2018

 October, 2018.  What a fabulous weekend.  Six of us were at the home of Susan and Duncan Brown  for a beautiful fall weekend in Williamstown, Mass.  Back:  Liz Hottel Barrett, Barbie Sutton, Babbie Baldwin Miller, Susan Rhodes Brown; and front: Susan Griffen Meeker, and Katherine Kaufman Snelson.  Also there were Liz Kolodny, Ludlow Miller and Bryan Barrett in the care of Duncan Brown, King of Hosts.  Our chef was Susan Griffen Meeker who produced a steady stream of 5-star meals. We ate, sat in front of the fire and chatted, drank, toured a Breuer house nearby, laughed, ate, cried, looked at photos, drank, and simply enjoyed every minute together.  We good friends enjoyed our annual weekend — better every year — lucky us!

NH Mini-Reunion 2018

Barbara Freeman Douglass sent this treasure.  What fun they must have had!  

We were small in number but great in spirit.  Diana Diggin, Judy Marshall Kennedy, Bobbi Childs Sampson, Carol Sweeney Benson, Dee deFeranti Abrahamse, Barbara Freeman Douglass gathered for conversation and inspiration. Judy had seen Dottie Smith Mann recently and Dottie talked about her “spiritual home” in Rockport MA. Lovely to muse on this topic, with varied answers, past and present locations included.
Newsworthy events were the final sale of Judy’s business and lots of travel planned; Bobbi’s ascent of Katahdin Mountain this summer (wow!); Carol’s role as Nana the dog in Peter Pan.  Dee had book recommendations which I think she has shared.  One of her book groups focuses on non-American writers which helps widen horizons. Best of all was the warm and caring atmosphere as we are ready to support each other as we go on.

Williamstown 2017

In the beginning of May, 2017, the “South Rocky 8” met once again in Williamstown, MA, at the home of Susan and Duncan Brown, a place we know so well and that gives us a wonderful sense of belonging. Susan Meeker was 100% in charge of food and cooking — lucky us! We began meeting regularly in 1989, but this was the first time that all eight of us have been together in a long time. Listed by roommate pairs, we are: Susan Rhodes Brown and Babbie Baldwin Miller; Jenifer Grant Marx and Liz Hottel Barrett (in singles); Jane Shaw Dietrich and Katherine Kaufman Snelson; Barbara Sutton and Susan Griffen Meeker. And for the first time joining us was Liz Kolodny.  What fun we had. We love our morning walks. We never miss a chance to see an exhibit or two at the amazing MassMOCA. If you find yourselves in Western Massachusetts, try to stop and enjoy it. I attach a photo gallery here of our wonderful weekend. Click on a photo and then use your direction arrow to move to the next.